tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post3769445785900590971..comments2024-02-19T06:59:59.496-05:00Comments on Diary Of A Fat Girl: I'm Overweight and my Husband's Not - Big Freaking Deal!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12964350598410764765noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-24525953538243101322013-06-29T10:10:46.955-04:002013-06-29T10:10:46.955-04:00What an honest and open blog entry, thank you for ...What an honest and open blog entry, thank you for sharing! Unfortunately, I do not have a partner in crime and I know that is all my fault. I am just coming to this realization... In the past, I would think, "Wow - I am funny and kind, why is no one with me?" and always soak it up to their loss. I would also judge others... "man, if so and so can get a boyfriend/fiance/husband, what is wrong with me?" which is such an ugly way of thinking. I would date, mostly people I've met online, and it would not go more than one or two dates... mostly because I seemed to attract people that just wanted sex or because once meeting, the guy would no longer be interested. I am a hypocrite, too, in not preferring overweight men. I also feel they need to be taller than me. I am almost 5'10 and I seek someone who can make me feel secure and for some reason, their height gives me that feeling. It is all so superficial... <br /><br />Now that I am recognizing changes I need to make within myself, I am okay being single and figuring this all out. It would be nice to have a partner for support and compliments, but I know I am strong enough to do it on my own and hope that they will come with time... <br /><br />My best friend is 5'10" and her husband is probably 5'5" and he is affectionate, loving, and complimentary all the time. I don't know why I can't get over the height thing, but for now - I will just focus on me and reap the rewards later :)RaeJean (RJ)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12528203191623953330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-10893825657260475052013-06-26T07:13:34.065-04:002013-06-26T07:13:34.065-04:00This was a great post! Sounds like you got one of ...This was a great post! Sounds like you got one of the good guys out there700 pounds is as bad as it soundshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10241299598682796712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-83138659934393420572013-06-25T14:30:57.176-04:002013-06-25T14:30:57.176-04:00Great post! I know my other half has loved me thr...Great post! I know my other half has loved me through thick and think and I love him more for it!!! Its just proof that what's on the inside is what counts!Dani - tkdchickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08304768491192625890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-7926057805193028422013-06-25T14:24:55.815-04:002013-06-25T14:24:55.815-04:00I just found your blog and wanted to comment. I wa...I just found your blog and wanted to comment. I was slim when I met my ex-husband but over the years as I gained weight he'd make snide comments making it clear that he didn't want a "fat girl". He became less and less attracted to me, which made me want to eat more so the fatter I got. That's partly why he's an ex. Sunnydazehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05853228718149483837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-56582753433257393372013-06-25T10:42:29.559-04:002013-06-25T10:42:29.559-04:00Great post, and thanks for being so open! :) I'...Great post, and thanks for being so open! :) I'm also fatter than my husband, but he is taller than me; somehow, in my mind, that "looks" better... however, I do believe that true love accepts us as we are and supports us in our goals. So my husband loves me as I am and is 100% supporting me in who I (that's the key word: "I") want to be.Arithttp://fatkicking.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-85737047174474958782013-06-25T07:12:47.596-04:002013-06-25T07:12:47.596-04:00Hi. I am maybe not 100+ pounds off of the "pe...Hi. I am maybe not 100+ pounds off of the "perfect" me - more about a 60 or so, but I still feel bad comparing to DH. When he met me I was only around 10 punds overweight....now he is pretty supportive, when it comes to my wieght right now... But I sometimes feel like the odd ball out there. Like the only one that cannot "fit" into his pants. I do not mind that as long he likes me. The slothhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12419973149626099457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2766979281274584481.post-89841245249125743232013-06-24T22:01:57.098-04:002013-06-24T22:01:57.098-04:00Oh I'm right there with you. I'm 100+ pou...Oh I'm right there with you. I'm 100+ pounds overweight and my husband is fit. It used to bother me...honestly even when I was skinny I didn't feel like we "matched" (silly me!). It doesn't bother me now because he's so good at complimenting me, etc. I do wonder if other people think we're mismatched though. Samantha @ 24 to 30https://www.blogger.com/profile/17657627369870728739noreply@blogger.com